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Phone Sex Services – The Most Bang for Your Buck

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I posted this reply to a post about the cost of phone sex services. I thought it would be helpful to my blog readers. I’d love to hear your ideas and feed back below in comments.

 

Focusing on quality and a relationship is not only more affordable in the long run but a lot more fulfilling. Of course its difficult to weed through the sea of competing sex workers to find the right one. Some more experienced than others. I have been doing phone sex for 9 years. I started when I was very young and even though I was already in the femdom lifestyle it took me years to really understand how to provide great phone sex.

You have different types of callers:

1) Conversation – needs to talk about everything with a kinky twist

2) Strictly Fantasy – wants to get down to it with no conversation

3) The Mistress Experience – needs to feel some kind of relationship.

I’m ok with any of the above. But my advice would be to do some research. If they have a blog- read it. If they have pictures or videos- buy some. Get a sense of who she is. Then email her and ask questions. If she doesn’t reply or it takes her a week to reply than she’s not serious about her business IMO. Make sure you are compatible.

Normally my calls are 2.60 a minute. So the typical great call would be 50 bucks for 20 minutes. But I do drop it to 1.99 now and then to give callers a chance to have more conversation and to invite new callers. Some guys are on a budget and they do email me to figure out how they can stay on point. I suggest a longer first call to break the ice followed by shorter calls. Or see if she has a pre call questionnaire you can fill out and or email her an outline of your basic interest. Sending her a long fantasy story won’t work. Let me give you an example and feel free to use it.

Example email:

My name is Phil. Thank you for taking the time to read my email. I am interested in doing a calls with you.
My top interest are: tease and denial with a sexy seductress who is sensually dominant, bondage with teasing and cock control.

I have a few buzz words that make my cock raging hard: “I own your cock” , “I let you cum when I am ready” (this of course can be anything.

Total turn-off – anything anal or with other guys

I have a major turn on for white cotton panties & red high heels.

I enjoy a little conversation and then fantasy. My budget for calls is 15 minutes. If I can stick to this budget I can do a call every week.

Thank you

When someone calls for the first time I cut to the chase with questions. Since I have done this for years I’ve learned the right questions. But some guys are really shy and its hard to get them to open up. If this is YOU then I suggest you save for a longer call to break the ice and feel comfortable with the lady on the phone.

Hands down Nite Flirt has the most experienced phone sex workers anywhere. Many are professionals or in the lifestyle. You just have to invest some time reading and seeing who has what you need.



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robert3016 On March 5, 2015 | Reply

Just wanted to say I found this post very helpful. I have a little experience with calling pso’s, (I mean who doesn’t these days), but often find it hard to get the confidence to actually make the call. Part of this is just a problem with me being a little shy, not to mention so many choices. But i have good analysis skills, and i know what i am looking for, so i can usually hone in on a good one. My problem has often been with being disappointed. And not just after the call, but often within 4 seconds.
Goddess Natalie I think your post here is great information for anyone interested in placing a call. But for me, as someone who was already looking for what You are calling a “Mistress Experience”, it gave me reassurance that You are in fact an articulate thinking person, (in addition to being an obvious Goddess). Giving a clear example and description of call types while being sensitive to a caller’s budget is a clear departure from the pso advertising norm on “yeah whatever you want, I can do that”.
So anyway, I don’t want to keep going on, but I did want to say that this post helped me a lot in making the decision to call you specifically. And although It has only been one call so far, (W/we’ll see), I can say that the word “disappointed” is not in my vocabulary anymore. I have replaced that it with “sublime”.

    Natalie On October 24, 2015 | Reply

    I didn’t see this. Thank you Robert for your insight. I miss talking to you

vicix On March 7, 2015 | Reply

Dear Goddess,
Your blog is by far the most erotic experience on the web, You are a true Beauty and You deserve to be served and honoured simply by virtue of Your existence. i feel privileged to even been allowed to write these thoughts on Your blog.
Your humble and devoted servant,
vicix

    Natalie On October 24, 2015 | Reply

    Thank you so very much. I look forward to talking with you

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