100 Days of Chastity – A True Story

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Some time ago I saw a post about a guy that went 100 days without orgasm. I know there are denial fetishes that go longer, however I was fascinated by his story.  Could you go 100 days? How long could you go without orgasm?  Anyhow he agreed to write his story and share it with us. We’d love your comments and feedback. Would you like to read more stories like this?

100 Days of Chastity – A True Story by M

100 days indeed seemed like a very long time, but I didn’t set out with the intention of going that long, it just happened. Who in their right mind would decide to voluntarily go that long without an orgasm. That’s the kind of thinking that gets you kidnapped by friends, tossed in the back of a windowless van, and force fed cheeseburgers until you return to sanity.

The relationship with my wife has been in a steady decline for about 5 years. She has a medical condition, which leads to her developing a vaginal infection every time we have intercourse. For the last 3 years sex has been a very rare happening. 12/25/2013 was the last time for us. We would still fool around, engaging in oral or mutual masturbation, but since she “found the Lord” two years ago, that too has also been in a steady decline. 3/22/2014 was the last time she attempted intimacy.

The following Sunday she came to visit me in the computer room, complaining that she couldn’t sleep. I sat on the sofa with her, massaging her feet, and eventually going down on her, giving her several orgasms. When she reached for my crotch to return the favor, I told her, I had done it to help her relax, and covered her with the blankets letting her sleep.

A couple of days later, hoping to get a little relief myself, I molested her when she was bent over getting something from her purse. She turned and looked at me and asked “Can’t you just take care of THAT yourself?” We’ve been together 24 years, and this was the first time that she ever suggested that I masturbate alone.

With intimate contact so far apart, I had already become a “chronic wanker” doing it daily, sometimes two or three times. So out of anger, I resisted the urge for 24 days. On 4/12 I remembered a game on Milovana.com, where you gave up your right to orgasm, until you had completed a certain number of edges. I read the rules and asked to join. The rules were simple enough, when you join you are given a starting point and a “target subject”. You look at the pictures that have been posted and are allowed to stroke 15 times for each picture. If a video is posted, you have to sit there, watching the whole thing. You are allowed to slowly stroke for the final minute. If you find your “target” you are permitted to edge, and after 15 edges you are allowed to beg for permission to orgasm.

Because I was playing the game, it wasn’t really chastity, just a really extended period of T&D so I had no desire to cheat. It was an interesting journey to say the least. After about 40 days, I was horny enough to “Hump a tree, even if they told me there was a snake in it”. For days I would climb the walls dreaming about how good any form of release would feel. After a time my body would seem to give up, and there would be two or three days, where no matter how much I stroked, I wouldn’t even get an erection.

After playing for 32 days, I caught up to the end of the thread, and was forced to wait for new images to be posted. In an attempt to keep my hands and mind occupied, I started doing typing tasks on “Write for me.com” Two of the people whose tasks I completed actually responded. One was a Mistress that specialized in online chastity. She was over joyed when I explained what I was doing, encouraging me to keep going and asked that I keep doing her tasks and keep her updated on my status. She became an anchor point that helped to keep me focused, and prevented me from giving up a few times. The second Mistress, responded with commands to do more and more of her tasks, before inviting me to serve her. I didn’t realize at first that She was a Financial Domme, but after being asked to give tribute, I explained to her that I was unemployed, and that I really couldn’t afford to spend a ton of money. She gave me the link to her Amazon Tribute list, and I picked out an inexpensive blouse for her. The thrill of spending money on a total stranger was amazing.

The next day she asked for more, when I told her that I couldn’t, she demanded that I submit to her. I told her that I wasn’t feeling very submissive. She asked me to spend the following day with her. The next morning She was online waiting for me, and we talked, she had me type some tasks for her, as well as performing some other things like kneeling and reciting her mantra while naked. After the day, I agreed that I was indeed submissive. For the next 30 days I served her daily, giving occasional Tribute, and continuing to play the game. I was totally addicted to serving her, the feelings were like nothing I had ever known before. There were times when I didn’t hear from her for a couple of hours, and I was driven mad. Like a little puppy looking out the window, searching for it’s owner, I would constantly check me email, almost sick with worry that I would never hear from her again.

Her constant demands for Tribute however, were beginning to worry me, I knew that I had spent over $300 on her. When I checked my credit card statement, I was horrified to learn that I had correctly factored in the exchange rate of Dollars to English Pounds, but had not known that there were also conversion fees, and International transaction fees involved. In truth I has spend nearly $800! In desperation, I begged her to slow down her demands, which she agreed to do, only to ask for a gift “because She was such a generous Mistress”. Eventually I was forced to end the relationship.

About day 60 of the game, which was 82 days of denial, I reached a state of near total arousal, where semi-erect and leaking became my normal state. I was going through withdrawal from losing my Mistress, and was an emotional train wreck. I reached out to some of the task setters on “write for me” and two of them responded, helping me through one of the most difficult times I’ve ever experienced. One of them has become a very close friend and mentor, the other after spending a week with me, offered to take me into her care and train me. I still serve her but that is a different story.

Finally after 90 of the most frustrating and arousing days in my life, I found my 15th and final target. Having a Mistress meant that even though the game was over, I was still not free to orgasm. I got this strange idea in my head “100 days seems much more impressive that 90 days, and I’d already endured the worst of it, how bad could 10 more days be?” I asked two of the Mistress’s what they thought about it, and they cheerfully agreed that 100 days was much more impressive, so I asked my Mistress if we could extend the denial period.

She replied that 100 was a perfect number, and that yes indeed, we would do so. The final 10 days were worse than all the other days combined. I was not allowed to touch myself so this was true chastity. I was under bathroom control the whole time, so it was also true submission. Finally on 7/1/14 I awoke to an email: “Today is the day. Knowing that after this I will fully control all your orgasms, are you sure you still want to do this?” I responded that fearing a return to my old ways, I felt that I needed to turn over control to somebody with a firm hand.

About an hour later I received the reply: “Good, you have my permission.” I sat there in shock. It had been 101 days, I didn’t know what to do. Two hours later, I grabbed a towel, locked myself in the guest room, and had one of the most incredible orgasms in my life.

I would say that it was more of a journey that a destination. I learned a lot of things about myself. At times I wish that I had never learned that I was submissive. I sometime yearn for the old days when my time and orgasms were my own. But overall I think I’ve learned that masturbation doesn’t have to be a quick routine thing, it is possible if you resist the urge to take your time to the point that you are almost making love to yourself (with Mistress’s permission of course!)

Humbly,
m



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geidar aliyev On August 23, 2014 | Reply

greate story. I AM not that much in chastity or woman dominateted over man. but the story is about how to control youreself. it is always good. keep yore energy do not waste. let me give other greate example. MİKE TYSON hasnt had sex for 5 yeares when he was in prison.
English is not my native so try to understand as it is. thanku again for investing yore time. tace care my AMAZON GODDES.

    Natalie On August 23, 2014 | Reply

    If you are not into women dominating men then why are you here?

geidar aliyev On August 23, 2014 | Reply

to me women who are pro dominatrixes are prostitutes for when you demand money to fulfill sexual fantasies that’s prostitution and the sad irony is that about 90% of the time that’s where men need to go to fulfill their sexual fantasies…

    Natalie On August 23, 2014 | Reply

    That’s judgmental and disrespectful to women. I don’t find anything wrong with sex work if a woman chooses to do it.

David On August 24, 2014 | Reply

Very interesting account of his experience! I would definitely like to hear more stories like this. I don’t have any experience with being in chastity, but I have been in a D/s relationship where my Domme/partner and I experimented in a degree of orgasm control. She was very interested and mentioned a possible chastity device, but at the time I was in no way ready for that level of commitment. I am still new to the lifestyle and rather inexperienced, but I find the dynamics/psychology of it all very interesting and like to hear about the experiences of real life people.

    Natalie On August 24, 2014 | Reply

    I’ll come back tomorrow to reply at length.

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