CHASTITY: THE CONTROL OF MALE MASTURBATION AND ORGASM

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Orgasm Control

 “The cornerstone of understanding why this device is so effective is two fold, and cannot be over stated: 1) A chastity device allows you to totally control your partner’s masturbation. Your ability to now control your partner’s masturbation and to provide the only relief for him, is a powerful tool. Few women ever come to realize how important masturbation-denial really is. Most women believe they have control over sex in the relationship and they incorrectly feel this gives them some sort of control. Controlling sex is not the same as controlling your partner’s orgasms. Just because you are controlling sex, don’t be misled into thinking that your partner is not orgasming without you.  Most women just don’t realize how much most males masturbate. And, they certainly would never admit to themselves that their man is doing it.  After all, you’re not doing it, and you wait for sex with him.  Shouldn’t he be waiting faithfully for you?  Well, wake up honey and smell the COFFEE.  Recent studies show that it is not uncommon for males between the ages of 25 and 40 to masturbate at least 3 times per day.  This shocks a lot of women.  I hope it doesn’t shock you, because not only is this normal, it is so very important that you know how much your man masturbates, and what a huge part it plays in his life.  Because , you are about to deny him a tremendously significant act, and not only that, you are going to control when, and how much he can orgasm.”  (Click here to read the rest of Mistress Lori’s article)

I really love this article. Not because I find it to be so well written but I love how well she embraces the concept of orgasm control and female domination. I can’t tell you how many forums I’ve read from a male’s perspective. How refreshing to stumble across a femdom woman’s point of view. When I try to describe this to my female friends they just can’t seem to grasp the concept of orgasm control or why it would be so very effective. So many men want to give up control or at least in fantasy. Today I spoke with a man who longs to be fully controlled by his Queen, much like his mother had done with his father. A loving female led relationship but with very strict control. His mother controlled the finances, what he husband and children wore, ate, etc. Essentially everything.

I admit that I have intense fantasies about female domination and having total absolute control over a human I own mind, body and soul. Sure I have guys that give me control over their orgasms and call themselves my slaves. I also know that I have figured out how to get into a guys head and seduce him into my web of control, however the control I’m really looking for or fantasize about is total control. It’s much more then kinky sex but a type of dynamic where I, the woman, is in complete control where he becomes truly enslaved by me. I can’t even begin to tell you how much this turns me on. As I get older I think about it more and more.

“Controlling sex is not the same as controlling your partner’s orgasms.”

A man’s orgasm is the essence of his sexuality and ultimately defines who he is as a man. Once you successfully control his orgasm you are completely in charge of his focus and all of his activities. As Ms Lori states is that controlling sex doesn’t mean you have control over how often he masturbates. The average man between 25 and 40 masturbates 3 times a day! WOW that even surprised me. If you are a such a man could you imagine halting all those wank sessions and not having an orgasm for a week or more?  Now imagine giving up all that control- when you could touch, stroke and cum? I think that most of you would cheat, right? But what if you were truly locked up in a chastity device and had no control over when you would be let out?  How would you feel after a few days? What about a few weeks?

When I control a man’s orgasm (total cock control) I own the entire man. Nothing turns me on more then this because he will literally become a puppet on a string.  If he has fetishes or you create addictions while he is under your control it’s highly unlikely he will stray. They might try to have a vanilla relationship but they will always return begging for another chance.

The complete article is HERE

It’s long but be sure to read the entire article. I’d really love to start a dialogue here about this topic so come back and share your thoughts and comments. Also if you have personal experience with chastity please please post or links to sites to purchase devices.

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Cal35 On August 31, 2013 | Reply

The Mistress Lori article is right on and interesting. I believe that such training would bring order to many mens’ lives. Submitting such masturbation and orgasm control has the capacity to develop into a great relationship (yes it’s still a relationship, but one balanced much toward the superior female) in which the sub and dom transform. The chastity bound male will redirect most his selfish actions now toward the pleasing of his ‘key holding superior’ and the transformation shall actually occur and develop as the man does acts for the superior woman (tasks like constant massage, licking, cooking more meals, cleaning house and washing clothes) The transformation is complete when the male focuses more on -the above-mentioned tasks and how they please the key holder and he does them, not to obtain rights to masturbate or orgasm but really because the task completions are pleasing to HER and by now pleasing to HIM because they please her.
I hope to proceed to that territory someday and lose my selfishness and gain stability Mistress.

Cal

    Natalie On September 1, 2013 | Reply

    Have you and I done a training program yet?

    Wouldn’t it be a perfect world if men were taught as young boys to do this? Or all fitted with devices right from the start?

      Cal35 On September 1, 2013 | Reply

      Goddess: No, we haven’t but I am gripped by your ‘dominant female gravity’, being drawn ever closer to my correction training.

      It would be an interesting world to say the least…what great idea for a sexual sci-fi short story or movie!

        Natalie On September 5, 2013 | Reply

        I’m wondering why you haven’t signed up for one of my programs yet. lol what are you waiting for?

sub slave sanjay On August 31, 2013 | Reply

Goddess Natalie,

Thank You for pointing U/us to this very informative and educational blog on the acts of Orgasm Denial, Orgasm Control and chastity, from a Lady’s perspective.

Reading the blog, one sees that the target audience is for the Ladies and You have not stated if You want to hear for a sub’s impression of the blog, but i will make comments and leave it to You to remove it if You do not require a sub’s POV.

Mistress Lori’s blog shows the deviousness of the Ladies, together with the natural responses that putting a chastity cage on and conditioning a sub male’s psyche, through refocusing their fantasies.

i am searching for such a relationship and hope to fulfil that aim, be it online or (preferably) in person.

Ladies, good luck in Your journeys to create Your Female-Centric relationships.

    Natalie On September 1, 2013 | Reply

    Of course I want your point of view. I’d love to hear more about your ideas about female-centric relationships.

taken On January 11, 2014 | Reply

Dear Goddess Natalie,

Thank You for posting this link and sharing this article. i am in day 8 of Your training program and still new to orgasm control and kink. The article was amazingly accurate and truthful. In the last few days i have come to realize how selfish i have been in life and that the reason i have never found a fulfilling relationship is my own fault. Instead of focusing my energy on to beautiful Dominant Woman such as Yourself, i have focused on my own fantasies which has led me to run in circles. i have so much more to offer to Women and going forward i will work to channel my energy into something that is real, such as Your control over me and the treating the woman in my life with the respect and dignity they deserve. i know this will not be easy, but seeing what You have been able to teach me in such a short time gives me hope. i will work hard not to disappoint You and look forward to the opportunity to submit to a 30 day training program. i know it will make me a better person and will give me the opportunity to please You.

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